Only when you can bear grievances can you bear responsibility

2017-12-11 「 1250 words / 3 minute 」
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如果生活对你不公。
If life treats you unfairly.
不要哭泣。不要叫嚷。也不要向任何人抱怨。
Don't cry. Don't shout. Don't complain to anyone.
因为这就是生活。
Because that's just how life is.
它从来就不是公平的。
It's never fair.
让我来给你讲一个故事吧。从前,有两个男孩。
Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time there were two boys.
他们其中一个很矮,而另一个很高。
One of them was short and the other was tall.
他们同时站在了一堵矮墙面前,都想看看墙那边是什么。
They stood in front of a low wall and both wanted to see what was beyond that wall.
个子高的那个很轻易就能做到,但个子矮的那个却需要站在椅子上才能达到同样的高度。
The taller one could easily do that but the shorter one needed to stand on a chair to reach the height.
对于个子高的那个,这个椅子只不过是个椅子。
To the taller one the chair was only a chair.
可矮的那个却把它称为“正义”,因为它带来了“公平”。
But the shorter one called the chair Justice, because it made the situation "fair".
其实真实的生活不就像是这样吗?它并不公平。
Well, real life is just like this. It's not fair.
大部分人会为此而抱怨,而且仅仅止步于抱怨;而还有一小部分人,他们选择承受这种不公,并试着发掘自己的力量。
Most people complain about it and stop at just complaining about it, while a few others choose to bear this unfairness and try to discover their own strength.
只有这第二种人才有可能成为世界真正的主人。
And this second kind are the ones who have a chance to truly run the world.
你得承受得起委屈,才能承受得了责任。
Only by bearing unfairness can you bear responsibility.
生活就是这么运作的。
That's how life works.