Wonderful remarks! Is the wife's refusal to have sex with her husband equated to abuse?

2017-08-22 「 1927 words / 4 minute 」
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马来西亚一名议员发表言论称,女性拒绝与丈夫同房的行为是一种“心理和感情上的虐待”,从而引发了热议。
A Malaysian lawmaker has come under fire for saying that women denying sex to their husbands was a form of "psychological and emotional abuse".
来自执政联盟国民阵线的议员默罕默德·贾苏在议会上就家庭暴力法进行了辩论。
Mohamad Jusoh from the ruling Barisan Nasional coalition was addressing a domestic violence debate during a parliamentary session.
这位来自登嘉楼州的58岁的政治家称,男人“受到情感的伤害,而非身体上的虐待”。
The 58-year-old politician from Terengganu state said men "suffered emotional rather than physical abuse".
他说道:“尽管男性身体比女性强壮,但仍有妻子以极端方式伤害或虐待另一半的例子。”
"Even though men are said to be physically stronger than women, there are cases where wives hurt or abuse their husbands in an extreme manner," he said.
“这通常包括妻子诅咒丈夫,这属于情感上的虐待。她们侮辱自己的丈夫,并拒绝满足他们的性需求。这些都属于心理和情感上的虐待。”
"Usually, it involves wives cursing their husbands: this is emotional abuse. They insult their husbands and refuse his sexual needs. All these are types of psychological and emotional abuse."
在穆斯林人口占多数的马来西亚,只要得到伊斯兰教法法庭的许可,穆斯林男子可以娶多至四位妻子,这在马亚西亚是合法的。
It also remains legal in Malaysia, a Muslim-majority country, for Muslim men to have as many as four wives as long as they obtain permission from a Sharia court.
贾苏在议会的一次演讲中谈到了这一点,他表示,拒绝一个穆斯林男子和第二个妻子结婚,也等同于“虐待”。
Mr Jusoh touched on this in a speech to parliament, saying that denying a Muslim man the chance to marry a second wife also amounted to "abuse".
贾苏的这番表态立刻引发了人们的围攻,包括女权人士玛丽娜·马哈蒂尔,她也是马来西亚前总理马哈蒂尔·穆罕默德的女儿。
The politician's stand drew widespread outrage, including condemnation from women's rights activist Marina Mahathir who is also the daughter of former Malaysian Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamed.
她在接受法新社采访时表示:“结婚后就拥有妻子身体所有权的想法是一种腐朽观念,现在已经行不通了。女性有权拒绝性行为,而认为女性拒绝男性求欢就是虐待他,这种说法很荒谬。”
"This is an old notion, that when you marry a women you own her body. It does not work that way," she told the AFP news agency. "Women have a right to say no to sex. It is ridiculous to say men are abused if women say no."